for the past 2-3 days I have been grappling with an interesting problem. Without boring anyone with the details, the root cause is to do with how much does one get involved when trying to do good for another person. Does helping only qualify if one goes all out or if one were to help 'within one's own limitations' , would that still qualify as help... The other more complex problem is that I may think that the help should be given in a certain way but the reciever of help has a different perception of how he/she should be helped. In that case even if one knows that their own path is more sensible does it make sense to take the receiver's path, would that really be helping in the right spirit... any answers in the blogosphere???